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Top 5 Things That Turn A Wealthy Man Off
dating tips for women on October 12, 2011
It’s important to realize and understand the things that turn wealthy men off, just as much as you need to know what turns them on. The more one knows about the opposite sex the easier it is to understand them, connect with them and maintain a lasting relationship with them. Below you will find the top five things men say turn them off and send them running for the hills.
Trying to change them – Everyone including men want and desire a person who will love them for themselves. No one wants to feel pressured to change whether it’s how they dress, what they eat, watch, do for fun or the friends they hang out with. If you can’t love and accept the guy your with for who he is then don’t date him. The same applies the other way around. Date around and find someone who you truly connect with rather then settling for the first one that comes along.
Ultimatums – Happy and healthy relationship don’t include ultimatums instead they should be open, honest and supportive. Giving a man an ultimatum is really no different then trying to change him. You’re trying to force him to do something or choose something against his will. When a couple has good communication skills they are able to communicate and express their feelings without having to dish out ultimatums.
Poor communication skills – Don’t say one thing when you really mean another, instead get in the habit of speaking your mind. Just as much as you deserve to be with someone who can communicate with you about their wants, needs and desires so do they. Remember though that communication entails much more then just speaking your mind. You have to be able to speak your thoughts clearly without being offensive and listen just as well.
Not being fair – Guys pay more attention then most women think. We you first start dating most wealthy men will pay attention to things like whether you constantly insist on them coming to meet you on your side of town, making them be the first to call etc. They’ll also pay attention to things like whether or not you throw things in their face, always insist on winning every fight or hold grudges. If you are that type of women it’s time for you to make some serious changes or you’ll end up a lonely woman.
Flakiness – No one wants to feel like a last option. Don’t just pencil in your dates or cancel them when better opportunities arrise. Wealthy men are turned off by women who flake out on plans and cancel dates last minute. You have to show your guy the same respect and appreciation that you would want shown in return.
Playing Hard To Get Will Only Back Fire On You
Dating tips on September 1, 2011
For as long as I can remember, there has been the myth going around that the way to get and keep a man is to play hard to get. However, the fact is, this simply isn’t true! It has actually been found that women who play the hard to get games usually end up unhappy and alone. They may be able to draw a man in at first with these games, but they usually won’t stick around for long.
A man might become intrigued at first with your hard to get games and techniques; but what do you think will happen once you finally give in? He will loose interest! He’ll jump threw fire rings to get the prize but once he has it, it’ll no longer be as appealing. Now this doesn’t mean to simply continue playing the games forever. After all that wouldn’t fair to you, let alone him. By playing these games you are withdrawing yourself and keeping yourself from truly being happy.
By playing hard to get you lead men to think one or all of the following:
(a) She must not be into me.
(b) She is rude/stuck-up/inconsiderate or self involved.
(c) She is a game player and manipulator.
Yes, men do enjoy a little challenge; but, there is a difference between a women with self respect and a women who plays games. So no, you shouldn’t give it up on the first date nor should you reveal your whole life story on the first date. After all a little mystery can go a long way. There’s no reason for you to become an open book, within the first month of dating someone. It’s important to take your time and get to know each other and find your common interests and goals. This gives you both the opportunity to get to know each other before opening up your heart and taking the real risk of getting hurt or let down.
Don’t rush things and remember while dating should not be a game it should be fun!
5 Important Qualities Needed To Keep A Wealthy Man
Dating tips, Relationship Advice, wealthy men on August 2, 2011
When it comes to dating wealthy men there is so much to keep in mind. One important thing to know and remember is that getting him is the easy part. However, keeping him is the next step and the much more difficult part. And if you think that your looks and bedroom skills are enough sorry to tell you but you are sadly mistaken. Yes, your looks and sex skills might be enough to get him and keep his attention for a little while but that’s it. Especially now that sex is so easy to come by especially for a wealthy man. Remember no matter how good you are there’s someone else out their that is just as good if not better no matter how many tricks you have up your sleeve. You simple have to face the facts that if you want to keep that man you’re gonna have to do more than just look cute and be good in bed.
We all know that every guy is different. They all have their own “wish list” and set of priorities. Something are simple more important to some men than others. However, there are a few main things that most if not all men do look for in a life partner.
1. Be a people person with a warm personality-
Most wealthy men are required to attend and host all sorts of meetings and get togethers with colleges and customers. It is important that you are able to get along with everyone and make them feel welcomed. It’s going to take more than just your looks you’re going to need to use your charm and have a warm and inviting personality.
2. Be able to hold a conversations of interest to him-
While many people get caught up talking about people it’s important that you stay away from that. Remember the famous quote “Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people.”
3. Know how to cook-
While most your meals may be eaten out, even wealthy men want to be able to enjoy a home cooked meal. It’s important to know your way around the kitchen and be able to put your love into a dish. As mentioned earlier in many cases they tend to have to host events and they are going to want you to be able to cook up a night they’ll never forget.
4. Be appreciative and grateful-
No matter how small of a gesture it is, you should always show appreciation. They are not required to do anything nice for you so if they do you should show them just how grateful you are. They last thing you want is for them to feel unappreciated!
5. Take an interest in his hobbies-
All guys have hobbies and they take them very seriously. Whether they are nto sports, video games, skydiving you name it, make sure to take part in it. Don’t just sit their with a look of boredom on your face. Get involved, try it out and if it’s just not for you then at least be a supportive cheerleader rooting them on.
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