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Signs Of A Gold Digger

Wealthy Men Blog on January 26, 2012

Let me first start by saying that not all women or men that choose to date wealthy people are gold diggers. Just because you enjoy dating wealthy people doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll only after their money. Maybe they’ve been raised in a certain lifestyle that you wish to maintain. Maybe they’re a hard worker that makes good/decent money themselves and wants the same from their significant other. There are tons of possibilities. While all that may be true it’s important to be ware of the gold diggers lurking near by. Gold diggers aren’t just women; men and homosexuals can be gold diggers just the same. As yo continue to read I’ve listed some great tips on things you should look for.

*They will usually ask upfront about your financial status. They’ll want to know how many homes you own, what kind of car you drive, marital status, kids etc. They will ask or hint for money and or gifts all the time. *They’ll talk about their financial problems and hint or even ask for help. Always looking for a hand out and ready for a shopping spree as long as you’re paying. *When you ask them what they’d like to do for an evening or weekend, they’ll always come up with an expensive suggestion. *They never offer to pay or do something that doesn’t require spending big bucks. *This person will only go out of their way for others, if there’s some kind of big payoff for themselves. However they are too lazy to actually do anything to accomplish it. Leaving it to someone else to get it or make it happen for them.*Gold diggers either don’t work or usually work in places that requires very little work from them and gives them an opportunities to meet money makers (spas, resorts, clubs etc.). *Pay attention to just how much attention they are paying to your wealthy friends and others you may come across. *Do a background check and look for financial discrepancies, whether they had a real job, moved around a lot etc. *Ask to meet their family . You can discover a lot about a person from getting to know their family. *They use sex as a thank you. Think about it, do you only have wild intense sex after you’ve given them an expensive gift or had an expensive outing? *Last but not least, they have more attitude then gratitude! In other words they act as though you are required to take care of them, pay their bills and buy them gifts.

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Is Your Girl Nothing But a Golddigger?

Wealthy Men Blog on January 13, 2012

You’re a wealthy man and you’ve hooked up with a seemingly perfect woman. She’s cultured, beautiful and best of all she’s a Goddess in bed. But you’ve been noticing that your perfect woman seems to be awfully friendly with your network of friends that also, happen to be wealthy. Could she possibly be nothing but a gold-digger with a great act and top notch looks that the “up keep” is noticeably affecting your bank account?

Maybe her overly friendly disposition towards your friends is simply to land a Plan B and maybe even a Plan C. Naturally, you’re Plan A, but materialistic women can’t “afford‘ to take any chances. This is not to make you paranoid but to make you aware. There’s plenty of women out there that are just looking to marry a man with loads of cash. If you haven’t proposed she might be getting desperate-diving into survival mode.

You don’t want to blatantly ask her if she’s using you for your money, because it might not be true at all? You need to find creative ways to find out if she’s really into you and not your wallet.

Here a couple of things you can try out and observe her reactions:

  • 1. Spill some wine on your dress shirt and ask her if she can clean it for you. If she suggests that you should just take it to the dry cleaners without even trying- that’s a red flag. If she gets your shirt and tries to remove the stain herself, even if she doesn’t succeed, this most likely means she cares for you and your shirt and doesn’t want to just live off your back. She’s there for you.
  • 2. Casually, mention that you miss a home cocked meal. Watch her reaction. Does she cringe? Or does she suggest that maybe she can make something for you in the next couple of days. Does she ask you what are some of your favorite home cooked meals or does she suggest a restaurant that cooks just like it was homemade?
  • 3. Invite her to go shopping with you. Does she go for the most expensive items? Does she completely take advantage of the opportunity and goes wild with your Credit Card? Well, you can’t really blame a girl for going wild with a credit card, but what attracts her? Does she encourage you to shop as well and does she suggest you make a purchase or picks out something for you? If she helps you pick something out and it’s not all about her and how much she can squeeze in, she’s into you and not just your wallet.

Nothing can be set in stone, not even if you ask because that’s why we’re all so very capable of making up lies. However, if you suspect that your woman is nothing but a gold-digger that has no interest in you whatsoever, just be observant of her and her actions and reactions. Try out 1 or more of the things mentioned above. Just be sure that when a woman is truly interested in you or in love with you, it’s in her DNA to nurture you.

Read up on some more Dating/Sex Advice on The Biggest Sex Mistakes Men Make.

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