You’re a wealthy man and you’ve hooked up with a seemingly perfect woman. She’s cultured, beautiful and best of all she’s a Goddess in bed. But you’ve been noticing that your perfect woman seems to be awfully friendly with your network of friends that also, happen to be wealthy. Could she possibly be nothing but a gold-digger with a great act and top notch looks that the “up keep” is noticeably affecting your bank account?

Maybe her overly friendly disposition towards your friends is simply to land a Plan B and maybe even a Plan C. Naturally, you’re Plan A, but materialistic women can’t “afford‘ to take any chances. This is not to make you paranoid but to make you aware. There’s plenty of women out there that are just looking to marry a man with loads of cash. If you haven’t proposed she might be getting desperate-diving into survival mode.

You don’t want to blatantly ask her if she’s using you for your money, because it might not be true at all? You need to find creative ways to find out if she’s really into you and not your wallet.

Here a couple of things you can try out and observe her reactions:

• 1. Spill some wine on your dress shirt and ask her if she can clean it for you. If she suggests that you should just take it to the dry cleaners without even trying- that’s a red flag. If she gets your shirt and tries to remove the stain herself, even if she doesn’t succeed, this most likely means she cares for you and your shirt and doesn’t want to just live off your back. She’s there for you.

• 2. Casually, mention that you miss a home cocked meal. Watch her reaction. Does she cringe? Or does she suggest that maybe she can make something for you in the next couple of days. Does she ask you what are some of your favorite home cooked meals or does she suggest a restaurant that cooks just like it was homemade?

• 3. Invite her to go shopping with you. Does she go for the most expensive items? Does she completely take advantage of the opportunity and goes wild with your Credit Card? Well, you can’t really blame a girl for going wild with a credit card, but what attracts her? Does she encourage you to shop as well and does she suggest you make a purchase or picks out something for you? If she helps you pick something out and it’s not all about her and how much she can squeeze in, she’s into you and not just your wallet.

Nothing can be set in stone, not even if you ask because that’s why we’re all so very capable of making up lies. However, if you suspect that your woman is nothing but a gold-digger that has no interest in you whatsoever, just be observant of her and her actions and reactions. Try out 1 or more of the things mentioned above. Just be sure that when a woman is truly interested in you or in love with you, it’s in her DNA to nurture you.

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