Men fall out of love all the time, telling us the famous “It’s not you, it’s me” line. Well after doing much research I’ve listed below the Top 5 Reasons Men Fall Out of Love. You may be surprised how many of these will shock you. It’s important to remember that what seems like common sense to one person is not common sense to the other. If there are communication issues in the relationship so much can go wrong due to lack of understanding.
He looks at you as the barrier of BAD news! – If every time you open your mouth your spitting out negative words and issues it’s no wonder he doesn’t want to talk to you or be around you. Obviously things happen and you’ll have to discuss issues and unpleasant topics. However, this shouldn’t be the only stuff that comes out of your mouth. Talk about when would be the ideal time to talk about upcoming issues and times to keep light hearted and relaxed.
The relationship is lacking balance! – There’s no denying that a relationship is work. When you share responsibilities such as a home, children and expenses you and your partner will find yourself in many “business” like conversations. It’s important to make sure that you don’t become all business and no love. Set aside time for “business” and time for fun and love. By keeping your relationship fun and playful you create a balance and he can see you as enjoyment rather then associate you with stress.
The relationship is lacking a strong fondation! – With so many relationships today being built off of lines and drunken hookups there’s no wonder so many relationships fail. In order for a relationship to last there must be a strong fondation, it must have deep roots. If I tree is planted correctly it can witstand the strongest of storms. However, if that tree’s roots are deep enough it will be ripped up and destroyed. The same applies to relationships, the ones with deep roots are the ones that survive the storms and hardships while the others are ripped apart.
He doesn’t feel admired or believed in by you! – When it comes to men admiration and loyalty are HUGE factors. They need to feel that their partner not only loves them but admires, believes in them and is always in their corner. They need to know that when things go wrong you’ll still be there. Just as importantly he needs to know that you admire him. A man who feels admired feels loved and MANLY while a man who doesn’t feels disgraced and/or worthless.
He sees your relationship as being incompatible! – While opposities may attract in the beginning, over time those same incompatibilities can lead to serious issues. In the beginning it may be easy to over look your indifferences but as time goes on reality will hit. Most people in the begin just focus on the things they have in common and avoid all the things they don’t. Maybe one of you is religious and the other isn’t. Maybe one of you is a home body while the other loves the outdoors. At some point you’ll begin to clash and even fall out of love with one another.