They say age is nothing but a number, and when it comes to dating an older sugar daddy, that is a really good way to look at it. Feelings, love, emotions are all blind. If there is a connection between you and you’re older sugar daddy, then you should try and run with it. And by the way, we mean a girl that may be 23 with a guy that’s 50. Not a case like Anna Nicole Smith where she was in her 30′s, and he was in his 80′s. Anyway, here are 5 tips that will help you with the generation gap:
Sugar Daddy Tip 1: Don’t make it about the age difference. Instead, make it about things you have in common. These could be personality traits, values and hobbies like cooking or nature walks, etc.
Sugar Daddy Tip 2: Be flexible with each others needs. A younger lady may want to go out every night to bars and clubs. And if her 50-year-old sugar daddy can oblige her, then she should be willing to take it easy a couple days and just rest at home. It’s all about finding a middle ground.
Sugar Daddy Tip 3: Avoid parent/child rhetoric at all costs. This will surely take you down the wrong route. He isn’t your dad, and you are not his daughter. So let’s leave the lecturing and the ridiculous behaviors at the door. If he doesn’t try to control you or talk about your ignorance of youth, then you shouldn’t say he’s out of touch. Talk about this before hand, and it won’t be a problem.
Sugar Daddy Tip 4: Talk about the goals of the relationship. If you do this from the beginning, then everyone knows the expectations whether he is dating you for fun and just wants a girl that is “kept” by him, or if he wants to make you his wife.
Sugar Daddy Tip 5: Try and respect the generational gap difference. Don’t criticize his love for the Beatles, and he shouldn’t diss your liking Lady Gaga either. The point is that even though you may not like the other person’s preferences culturally, you can be tolerant and not outright diss it.